After graduating
from SHS, I headed for Boston and went to
Katharine Gibbs School (secretarial school) I
put in my one year there and went to Hartford
where my father and stepmother lived. Soon I
moved into an apartment with a schoolmate. We
were 19 and didn’t have a clue about living on
our own, but we managed. One year there and it
was “Bright Lights, Big City” for me and on to
New York.
Had a great five years there, had some
interesting jobs, and on the personal front, got
engaged and un-engaged (loved the ring, not so
much the guy). Then on to Houston, Denver and
St. Thomas, USVI (and somewhere in that time a
second engagement, which also didn’t pan out).
In Houston I worked for a cardiovascular surgeon
who headed up the artificial heart project,
pretty exciting stuff then.
In St. Thomas I worked front desk at a hotel, a
total change and lots of fun, but one year of
island living was plenty. On to Miami.
In 1976 I married a widower with two teen-aged
sons so I became wife and stepmom on the same
day. Talk about a challenge! My husband worked
for Pan American World Airways, and in addition
to traveling around the world, we were fortunate
to live in Rome, Italy; Washington, D.C.; and
Rio De Janeiro, Brazil. I wish I could state
that I speak fluent Italian and Portuguese, but
that is hardly the case. My “language gene”
went missing. We got both sons through college,
one through graduate school and one served three
years in the Marine Corps. We ended up back in
Miami in 1985. I worked as an office manager
for a plastic surgeon for many years and ended
my career as an office manager at a retirement
community. And in 1989 I received my bachelor’s
degree in liberal arts from Barry University
-- after 25 years of fiddling around at various
schools. Both of our sons are married and
courtesy of our younger son and his wife, we
became grandparents (I am “Granny Annie”) to
three wonderful children. My husband died in
2008, which turned my world around, to say the
least, and seven months ago I sold our house and
moved to Winter Garden, six miles from our older
son and daughter-in-law. Life here is much
quieter than in Miami, for which I am grateful.
I am a volunteer patient advocate at a local
hospital, which is very rewarding, and I spend
entirely too much time getting “beaten up” by a
trainer at a nearby gym; but that’s a necessity,
since I have a pesky autoimmune syndrome which
affects my balance, but I won’t elaborate on
that. Life has been very interesting with its
twists and turns and ups and downs, and I
wouldn’t change any of it.
My education was slightly schizophrenic. Private
schools and public schools. Started out at Out
of Door School on Siesta Key, on to Southside
and then to Central. Central will forever stick
in my mind because the one year I spent there
was a nightmare. I had the teacher from hell. I
could not master long division and this evil,
evil lousy excuse of a teacher (I STILL get mad
when I think about that experience, which,
fortunately, is not very often) made me stand at
the blackboard for a very long time until I
could solve a problem. Didn’t solve it. She was
not even subtle about her “pets” and I hated her
with a passion -- well, as much passion as an
eight year-old can muster.
On to Alexandria, Virginia, and D. C. and then
Stonington, Connecticut, and one year of
boarding school in Providence, Rhode Island. I
ended up at Sarasota Junior High in the ninth
grade where I was referred to by one teacher as
a “snowbird.” Thanks a lot whatever your name
was. Bad enough I was a new kid but did you have
to label me? And, of course, that was followed
by my less than stellar academic “career” at
SHS. I never flunked anything but came
dangerously close with my last Latin class. Why
on earth did I bother with that? I do remember
the shorthand teacher, Miss Chatfield, who was a
real character but who ended up being a mentor
of sorts.
I always envied kids who lived in the same place
while growing up and whose classmates were the
same year in and out. I hated being the “new
kid” so many times and I’m not much of an
extrovert to begin with, so it was doubly hard
for me. But I weathered the storms and in the
end all that moving around and changing schools
was probably a mixed blessing because as an
adult I have been able to be a bit of a
chameleon and adapt to new situations relatively
gracefully.
So that’s it. That’s my story, and I’m sticking
to it!