Our family moved
to Florida from Deerfield, Illinois at the
beginning of my sophomore year at Sarasota High
School. I liked everything about Florida: my
classmates, the school, and of course, the great
weather. Unfortunately, I was not well during
those years. All my joints ached and I was very
tired. Our family doctor suspected that I had
rheumatoid arthritis, and it was not until 1965
that this diagnosis was verified by a
specialist. Therefore, I did not begin
aggressive treatment until then. The good news
is that one of the drugs available at that time
was very effective on me. I literally had a
rebirth; no longer was I dragging around, joints
aching. I had boundless energy and great
endurance. And, fortunately, I have had good
health for most of my life with continued
effective treatment. By the way rheumatoid
arthritis is not osteoarthritis. RA is a
systemic disease that can even affect the
organs; whereas, osteoarthritis affects the
joints only. My husband Paul has always been
there for me and I can’t thank him enough.
During college, I married Paul Dicker, SHS class
of 1958. We both graduated from the University
of Florida. Paul received both his bachelor’s
and master’s in mechanical engineering and I
received a bachelor’s in English and speech with
certification in secondary education. After
completing our studies, we moved to Virginia
where Paul worked at NASA for a few years before
we moved to Palm Beach Gardens, FL where Paul
went to work for Pratt & Whitney Aircraft. He
retired in 2001, but has remained with Pratt as
a fulltime consultant ever since.
In the 1960’s, I substituted for several terms,
then went into the art field for many years,
finally getting my bachelor’s of fine arts
degree with emphasis on painting in 1992 at
Florida Atlantic University in Boca Raton.
About 1971, Paul and I made the decision to
adopt a little Korean girl. The paperwork was
mountainous and the interviews nerve-wracking.
We had to be questioned by both Children’s Home
Society of Florida and Welcome House, the Pearl
Buck Foundation of Doylestown, Pa. We had to be
approved by both agencies. Finally, in 1973, we
picked her up at JFK airport in New York with
just one day notice. Adrianne, the name we chose
for her, was about two and a half years old and
spoke no English. We spoke no Korean.
The adjustment was very challenging to say the
least. The only health problem Adrianne had when
she arrived was terribly decayed baby teeth.
Within months of her arrival she had to endure
two hospital surgeries to fill or crown every
tooth she had. Amazingly, her permanent teeth
were perfect and to this day she has no
fillings. With the help of a terrific Montessori
school, Adrianne not only excelled learning
English, but upon entering public school in
first grade, tested at sixth grade level in
reading. She continued to excel in her studies
in grade school and high school and then
graduated from Harvard in Slavic language and
literature. Adrianne worked on Wall Street for
many years rising to an Executive Director
status and now works for the State Department in
Washington.
On September 11, 200l, after the Towers fell, as
an Army Reserve Officer, Adrianne left her
Morgan Stanley office in New York and made her
way to a police station close to Ground Zero and
offered her services. She lived in a trailer
near the site for about six weeks, then
volunteered to serve in Afghanistan where she
did counter-terror work stationed at Bagram Air
Base. She was on active duty for about two
years. Adrianne married Jean Philippe Kadzinski,
a native of Alsace, France two summers ago. So
now, we have a real United Nations in our
family!
For the past eight years, Paul and I have been
collectors and dealers (me) in antique American
Indian jewelry, (Paul) in old Florida license
plates including Miccosukee and Seminole tags.
We sell at antique and collectible shows
throughout the year. Also, we are avid eBayers
and not a day goes by that we are not on there
checking out our areas of interest. Selling at
shows allows us to cull our collections and add
more of what we really want. This is fun to us
and we like it. These interests have also helped
us meet some very interesting people.
Finally, let me say that I certainly had no idea
in high school the different directions that my
life would take me. This journey has been full
of surprises and great rewards.